He says he loves me and tells me he's sorry. So Why Does He Hit Me? We ask ourselves this question over and over again in our minds. What did I do so bad to set him off? He says it's my fault and I make him do it. Sound familiar? I wanted to make safe place for anyone who has gone through something like this or is going through this right now, to be able to come and talk freely about your experiences. You can share or just listen. With no repercussions or judgement.